Sunday, November 30, 2014

Violent video games.

In recent years, there has been more of a concern with violent behavior in children and adolescents. Although the rate of serious violent crime committed by juveniles has declined, there have been more school shootings and murders brought to our attention in the media.  Because of this, the public has tried to find a cause for these shootings, putting blame on gun control laws when in fact, they need to blame the person with their mental health and gaming habits.
Adam Lanza, the shooter in the Sandy Hook tragedy, blacked out his room so that when he played Call of Duty: Black Ops 2 on a regular basis, he would feel more involved in the game while trying to get a high body count. Adam Lanza constantly sought out higher-sensation experiences with violence until the real thing was the only way to satisfy his needs. Yes, very little is understood about this phenomenon of school shootings and what causes them to happen.  Psychology, sociology and neurology all contribute to the homicidal mindset and help us come to understand these tragedies. When looking into shooter’s lives, we can see that they were in fact playing these violent games.
I am aware that there are a large number of children who play different types of violent games and go on leading perfectly normal lives. Some use it as a stress reliever and enjoy it as their leisure activity. When children play positive, uplifting games, their behavior improves.
Although there is not a direct correlation between violent videogame play and committing the actual violent crimes, it is clear that a child can become more aggressive through this source of media. When adolescents play violent video games, especially at a young age, they are receiving a form of operant conditioning. 
Recent studies have shown that the relationship between violent videogames and aggression is stronger for individuals who are characteristically aggressive to begin with.  The type of aggression that is being triggered is that of physical aggression, which is more common in boys than girls. That being said, boys are also more prone to increase their aggression by playing video games than by watching TV.

In relation to the negative effects violent videogames has on behavior, those who play may struggle with maintaining normative feelings and capabilities. Adolescents seeking higher-sensation experiences are more likely to play violent video games that contain specific acts of violence (e.g., weapon use).  Research suggests that sensation seeking may also be related to risky behavior at a very young age. Who are we conditioning our children to become?

Sunday, October 5, 2014

LDS General Conference


I invite you to watch this inspiring program to better understand the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. You'll be glad you did.



Thursday, October 2, 2014

TED Talk




For one of my classes I watched this amazing video and I thought it would be fun to share and get a few insights from all of you on what you think about this topic of feminism. In no way do I think of myself as feminist. I believe in a woman staying home to be a loving, nurturing, mother while the man goes to work to provide for the family. On top of that, I believe that a man and woman should be equal in their say on raising their family. I feel strongly that men should be very involved as fathers in their children's lives. Here were a few points I picked out from the video. Do you agree or disagree with them?

·      Women are to remain quiet and reserve what you truly think -Disagree
·      Men are best at holding leadership positions -Disagree
·      Positions of power and prestige are to be held by men -Disagree
·      Men the earn money, women don’t -Disagree
·      We should teach boys to be afraid of weakness, vulnerability, etc. -Disagree
·      Men have to prove their masculinity ­-Agree
·      Women can have ambitions but not too much -Disagree
·      Women’s success is a threat to a man -Agree
·      Women are to aspire to marriage, it is the most important thing -Agree
·      Women cannot be sexual beings, men can -Disagree
·      Women should bring back the perfect man for marriage -Agree/Disagree because no one is perfect
·      Women are to do housework  -Agree, but both men and women should.

·      Women must prove their worth –Disagree, we are all sons and daughters of God


Saturday, September 27, 2014

Interior Design.

Take a look at this beautiful photography by Rebekah Westover.
She recently took pictures for the Gatehouse in Orem, where I work.
We design gorgeous spaces for all sorts of people throughout Utah and out of state. If you want to see more of my personal designs, follow me on Instagram @spenceylovesaaron or my design blog http://holeinthewalldesign.weebly.com

Also, head on over here: http://www.rebekahwestover.blogspot.com
and check out Rebekah's amazing photography!
(All furniture courtesy of Gatehouse No.1)

photo credit: Rebekah Westover Photography

Wednesday, September 24, 2014

Ray Rice Inspired Makeup Tutorial

I don't know if any of you have seen this, but it is so great.
In the news fairly recently, NFL star Ray Rice is getting off pretty easily for a crime he committed.
Megan MacKay tells this story through a makeup tutorial. It's a must see.
This just goes to show that NFL players along with other celebrities aren't being held at the same standard as normal people, and it's upsetting.


Friday, September 19, 2014

New iPhone, bigger & better than ever?

My husband pre-ordered the iPhone 6 Plus. I'm interested to see just how big it is. Will the phone fit in your pocket still? Will it look like an iPad Mini? Apple is always coming out with newer phones and gadgets. I wonder what they will be coming out with in 50 years from now...
What do you think? Do you like the new iPhones?

JetBlue Scare.

Did everyone hear about the flight that had to complete an emergency landing on Thursday?
Talk about scary stuff.
The engine overheated and thick smoke filled the cabin.
Passengers thought their lives were over and oxygen masks had to be deployed by flight attendants.
Everyone made it off the plane safely and are happy to be alive.
If you want more information on the story, click the link below.

http://www.cnn.com/2014/09/18/us/jetblue-emergency-landing/index.html?hpt=hp_t1

Sunday, September 14, 2014

Hello friends.

I'm back, and I will now be posting regularly: 2x a week.
My new focus will be on things I see in the media.

Lately I've been trying to keep up with NYFW and came across this gem from the very clever Jimmy Kimmel. Enjoy!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QZSbK_SMkf0


Sunday, May 12, 2013

happy mother's day!

My wedding day 02/17/12

Mother's Day 2011 with little bro

My cute mommy and I
To say I have the best mom is an understatement.
She has been my best friend, mother, counselor, nurturer, and a righteous example.
My mom has been through some tough things, but she deserves the best.
I hope to be a wonderful mom to my kids like she has been to all three of us.
She has done so much for me; given me everything.
I had a great childhood, and looking back I can't complain.
So good job, Mom. Motherhood is tough, but you're awesome.
I love you very much.
Enjoy this day!





Tuesday, April 30, 2013

insanity.


i'm six days into insanity workouts and i love it.
i feel so great, and the soreness is a reminder that i'm getting in better shape.
thank you to my husband for showing me this awesome quote!

Sunday, April 21, 2013

finals week.


luckily i have this guy around to keep me sane.
i've completed three finals already and have two more this week. wish me luck!
then it's off to Georgia to see my husband's cute family!
can't wait for summer.

Friday, April 19, 2013

taylor andrews hair show.








i was invited to be a part of the 10th annual taylor andrews hair & fashion show last night!
it was such a great experience, i loved doing it.
we woke up early and went to hair & makeup, got breakfast, and ran through the show a couple times.
the show was at 7pm and my husband, aunt, dad & stepmom were all there along with everyone else's friends, family, and critics.
the proceeds went to the YWCA, which is awesome.
thank you taylor andrews students!

Thursday, March 28, 2013

cupcakes.




i love my job.
so grateful that i work at such a happy place!
two lovely ladies came in yesterday and bought six dozen total cupcakes, which left us with almost nothing... so what do i do??
bake more!
my cute co-worker and i made more...for the very first time...and they look pretty dang good.
red velvet and better than whatever (sex) cake!
sugar overload, yum.



Sunday, March 24, 2013

banana chocolate chip pancakes.


i made these delicious pancakes for dinner the other night. just add chocolate chips and some mashed banana to any old pancake recipe you have! so heavenly and satisfied my breakfast/sweet tooth craving!
speaking of sweet things...working at my favorite cupcake place in provo has been so fun. i'm loving my co-workers, and the delicious cupcakes and drinks. 
lately life has been super busy and school is coming to a close for the semester.
i can finally see the light at the end of the tunnel and have a plan of when i'll be graduating! sooner than i expected, hooray! i sang an arrangement of "i know that my redeemer lives" in sacrament meeting today.  i love bearing my testimony through music. life is good right now, just busy. hope everyone is having a wonderful relaxing sunday like i am.
xoxo


Thursday, March 14, 2013

Obsessed.

this girl is amazing, and so is this song.
(wanting to do a cover of this too...)
enjoy! xo

Tuesday, March 12, 2013

what a beautiful day.


it's literally 52 degrees outside and i'm in heaven.
it feels so good! can't wait for summer!

Tuesday, March 5, 2013

our quick trip to moab.

this weekend the husband and i + lots of our friends went to Moab.
we camped (kinda) and explored.
there was really warm weather during the day.
super cold at night.
we hiked and found caves.
we climbed and jumped on a huge sand hill.
i felt as though i was at the beach...but where was the ocean?
we ate buffalo/bison burgers and i walked to mcdonalds in the morning (from our campsite).
isn't really camping when you're on main street in Moab. sorry guys.
and a gay speeding ticket on our way home, sorry kyle.
overall really, really fun.









Friday, March 1, 2013

happy friday!

so glad it's the weekend...
here's some news:

i got a job at my favorite cupcake place!
we are going camping in Moab with a bunch of friends this weekend...i'm not a camper...
wish me luck!
have a great weekend!
xo